All boys will make you cry, eventually. The real question is how they respond to your tears, and if the tears are because they don't respect you. No respect = bad. Tears because he's a frustrating, stupid, senseless, attention deficit creature that can't remember his own middle name... well, that'll happen.
yes that is right. also is he worth your tears? is he worth crying over? this is something that you must decide for yourself. take time to cry then decide if you want to wallow or move on to better things. the end.
... I think crying should not be seen as such a big deal in itself. (woah, let me step back.) I don't want to sound like a jerk here. I mean, honestly, people cry. I cry. Everyone cries. It's what we do. It's how we get through things, get over things. Sometimes I cry during a tough conversation. The idea that there is someone important in your life, especially one you care about, who will "never make you cry" is absurd. Relationships are about getting your feelings hurt. It's about people failing your expectations. It's about you finding out when to get tougher skin and when to adapt your expectations. But, sometimes life is about letting go and starting over. And that, as sad as it is, goes with a lot of crying.
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All boys will make you cry, eventually. The real question is how they respond to your tears, and if the tears are because they don't respect you. No respect = bad. Tears because he's a frustrating, stupid, senseless, attention deficit creature that can't remember his own middle name... well, that'll happen.
yes that is right. also is he worth your tears? is he worth crying over? this is something that you must decide for yourself. take time to cry then decide if you want to wallow or move on to better things. the end.
... I think crying should not be seen as such a big deal in itself. (woah, let me step back.) I don't want to sound like a jerk here. I mean, honestly, people cry. I cry. Everyone cries. It's what we do. It's how we get through things, get over things. Sometimes I cry during a tough conversation.
The idea that there is someone important in your life, especially one you care about, who will "never make you cry" is absurd. Relationships are about getting your feelings hurt. It's about people failing your expectations. It's about you finding out when to get tougher skin and when to adapt your expectations.
But,
sometimes life is about letting go and starting over. And that, as sad as it is, goes with a lot of crying.
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